Going to the movies is a project. Sometimes I think twice if it's even worth it.
He loves watching movies and he likes the excitement of going to the theatre with family and friends but you never know what will frighten him or when he'll loose his patience.
Since he decided to try, I had to get ready for the project so we will enjoy.
1. we watch the movie's trailer and talk about what we think it's going to be about including scary parts. then we check the length of the movie and check when there's a break.
2. we get ready ahead- how much time before to be there, where to park, the order of the actions and also what we're going to buy at the snack bar.
3. I give him responsibilities- he pays for the tickets, he orders the popcorn and coke and he gives the tickets at the entrance.
4. I always order seats close to the exit and where we don't sit alone- cause he likes to have people on both sides.
5. We enter the theatre on time and talk during commercials and take time to see when the movie actually begins. I show him where the restrooms are, where the exits are and how many rows.
6. If In the middle of the movie he feels that he wants to go out for any reason I let him. usually he goes out for several minutes and then comes back. If he's really scared I go out with him.
Yes, we go over the things again and again and people look at us weird but we don't care. Carefully and safely he lets go, he feels comfortable and he plays along and enjoys.
If they don't like movies- don't make them. And if they want to try- help them!